Lifestyle & Belief

Wanderlust Daily Trifle: Choreplay


A woman uses a vacuum cleaner to clean and prepare a stand at the 'Home Textiles' trade fair in Frankfurt, Germany on January 12, 2010.


Thomas Lohnes

Studies have shown that women are more likely to be interested in sex if the house is clean. This is where "choreplay" comes in.

Ian Kerner, PhD, a sex and relationship expert and the author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman, claims that a bit a "sexual bribery" in a healthy relationship is a good thing.

He said to Woman's Day:

Considering that women still end up bearing an unequal distribution of labor on the domestic front, turning foreplay into ‘choreplay’ is a brilliant strategy.


Now, that's an oxymoron if I've ever heard one.