Development & Education

School Year Blog: I'm Not Actually Nervous -- But, Yes, I'm a Little Nervous

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Credit: Anders Kelto

Sive, an eleventh-grader, holds up his US travel visa.

This blog post is part of a year-long series, School Year: Learning, Poverty, and Success in a South African Township. Read more on the School Year Blog.

Tomorrow is a big day for Sive. (It’s pronounced “See-vay.”)

“It’s the first time for everything,” the eleventh-grader says. “My first time on a plane, first time with a passport, first time with a visa…”

His destination? The United States of America.

Sive is known for his leadership at COSAT. He’s one of three juniors on the student council. He’s active with a community-based organization working to prevent gender-based violence in Khayelitsha, and spends many weekends talking to soccer players about the perils of abusing women.

“We target soccer teams rather than schools, because that’s where you can always find the young men – the worst offenders,” he says.

And he always seems to be at school, pitching in. The first time I visited COSAT, he was there, during vacation, assembling desks. He’s just that kind of kid.

Because of these qualities, Sive was one of 10 South African high school students selected for a US State Department leadership program. It involves a week in Washington DC, a week Denver, and a week in –

“I can’t remember the third,” he says. “But I think it is also very cold there.”

At a school assembly yesterday, Sive got a huge round of applause from his peers. He seemed a bit overwhelmed. Afterwards, he had trouble putting his feelings into words.

“I’m feeling…so many things,” he said. “I’m really going to miss my classmates.”

“Are you nervous?” I asked.

“I’m not actually nervous – but, yes, I’m a little nervous,” he said.

That may be the quickest opinion reversal I’ve ever heard.

Sive’s mom suffers from mental illness, and his three older brothers are basically nonexistent. A few weeks ago, he told me that it sometimes feels like he doesn’t have a family.

I’ve gathered that COSAT fills that void. It’s why he spends so much time at the school, and why he’ll be missing his classmates so much.

“For a long time, I’ve been saying that, next year, or next month, I will be going to America,” he says. “Now, I am saying that, tomorrow, I will be going to America.” A neighbor with a car is picking him up at 7 a.m., and bringing him to the airport.

I ask if he packed some warm clothes.

“Yes, but supposedly they are also giving us something warm,” he says with a smile.

“Thermals.”

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